Blessings or Curses

The beautiful month of November is here, filled with a vast array of color and crisp weather to kick-off the Thanksgiving season. Though each day should be filled with thanks to God for all His gifts—especially salvation—we tend to overlook the plentiful blessings of everyday life.  

My obvious blessings this month include a published book, encouraging people to slow down and reflect on God. It points out common behaviors found in humans and birds. Unfortunately, this time of celebration has been filled with anxiety and investigation, due to harassment by a then unknown source.

It’s the anti-social nature of social media.

What should have been one of my fondest months, having accomplished a lifetime dream, was tainted by Satan and his destructive schemes. It’s funny because the overriding theme of the book is to see our behavior in a new light, and change it for the better. But inciting poor behavior is Satan’s goal.

Satan hides in the darkness and stirs others to do the same. His purpose is to disrupt our peace and rob our joy. Though the month did not turn out as I had hoped, I learned a valuable lesson, one it has taken me a lifetime to understand. People are dangerous, jealous and unpredictable. Beware!

So how do you restore trust when things go awry?

“Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope: Because of the Lord’s great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.” Lamentations 3:21-23.

  • No one can rob your joy unless you allow it. And that is giving them and circumstances too much power. The Bible tells us in Isaiah 26:3:
    • God will keep us in a perfect state of peace, IF
    • we trust in HIM, and
    • keep our thoughts fixed on HIM.
  • God is in control: He knows all and sees all. Galatians 6:7-8
    • “Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. Whatever a man sows, he will reap in return.
    • The one who sows to please his flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; but the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life.”
  • Trials build trust.
    • “Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.” James 1:2-4
  • Educate yourself on the ability of today’s technology.
    • Anything good can also be used for evil.
    • Internet sites offer services for anyone to call, text, or email you anonymously.
    • One person can use several different names and numbers.
    • Learn to Block.

Conclusion: My life will be lived trusting God, not giving in to my weaknesses. Although fear and anxiety creep in, I am reminded to “Consider the Birds” and in so doing remember my God is in control of all things.

So, do I see November blessings? As my publisher would say, “YOU BET!”


  1. Jewell Utt Jewell Utt says

    From Kelley Ferguson: I can not conceive of ever leaving you an unkind evil message! You are one of the most adorable women I have ever known. Just remember how many of us love ❤️ you. We make up a large group😊

    • Jewell Utt Jewell Utt says

      And thank you Kelley for your kind response.. You are the second person that told me they had a problem posting. I hope everything is okay now..

  2. Reading this reminded me of a song by The Afters: “I Will fear no more.” Good backup to your verses!

  3. Avatar Dorothy Budd says

    Great article, Jewell! Well said on many fronts. Love you!

  4. Wow Jewell,, I can only imagine. Thanks for writing the article because we all need to be reminded that when what we do for and because of Christ impacts lives, the devil will be busy. I pray you continue to pray through this smoke screen and embrace the joy coming in November. god’s always got a plan better than we can think up.

    • Jewell Utt Jewell Utt says

      Lyvita, so good to hear from you and read your wise input. I hope your book is coming along. It was great to meet you in class and I hope we keep in good touch.

  5. Avatar Karen Ehasz says

    I’ve been praying for you.. So good to hear your positive attitude. and your dependence on God. It goes right along with my teaching about Joseph in conjunction with Potiphar’s wife for Bible Study.. All through his life he was hated, lied about, sold into slavery, thrown into prison etc. and yet he kept his focus on God and was greatly blessed. Keep looking up. That’s the only way to get through. Looking forward to your book signing. God Bless, Love you,

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